Grit
How everyday books show that we each serve one of two masters
I've been reading "GRIT: The Power of Passion and Perseverance" by Angela Duckworth. On page 146, I made a connection between its contents and a previous post of mine, "Which God Do You Serve?"
Pages 146-147 read:
Aristotle was among the first to recognize that there are at least two ways to pursue happiness. He called one “eudaimonic” - in harmony with one’s good (eu) inner spirit (daemon) - and the other “hedonic” - aimed at positive, in-the-moment, inherently self-centred experiences. Aristotle clearly took a side on the issue, deeming the hedonic life primitive and vulgar, and upholding the eudaimonic life as noble and pure.
But, in fact, both of these two approaches to happiness have very deep evolutionary roots.
On one hand, human beings seek pleasure because, by and large the things that bring us pleasure are those that increase our chances of survival. If our ancestors hadn’t craved food and sex, for example, they wouldn’t have lived very long or had many offspring. To some extent, all of us are, as Freud put it, driven by the “pleasure principle.”
On the other hand, human beings have evolved to seek meaning and purpose. In the most profound way, we’re social creatures. Why? Because the drive to connect with and serve others also promotes survival. How? Because people who cooperate are more likely to survive than loners. Society depends on stable interpersonal relationships, and society in so many ways keeps us fed, shelters us from the elements, and protects us from enemies. The desire to connect is as basic a human need as our appetite for pleasure.
To some extent, we’re all hardwired to pursue both hedonic and eudaimonic happiness. But the relative weight we give these two kinds of pursuits can vary. Some of us care about purpose much more than we care about pleasure, and vice versa.
"Which God Do You Serve?" speaks to this dichotomy. At any given point in our lives, we may be working in pursuit of safety, pleasure, or status (self-service), and at another point, we may be working to solve a problem, innovate, and be creative (service to others). Both cannot be pursued at the same time. You will love one and most probably be annoyed by the demands of the other.
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Have you found your God-given task? What personal mission do you feel in your heart you must fulfil before you die?